THE TRUTH
about this old parody song of Bob River’s
is that we dare say or even try to convince ourselves
that there are
JUST
12 Pains of Christmas. . .
Whatever other
P A I N
you may put on the list. . .
here’s hoping
EVEN NOW
(TEN DAYS AWAY FROM CHRISTMAS)
The Season
will give more than it promises
and whatever’s
e x P Ect e d
A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS
“In 1965, Charles Schulz, a devout Christian and creator of the Peanuts comic strip, was asked to create a Christmas special for CBS featuring the Peanuts characters. He agreed with one requirement: that they allow him to include the story of the birth of Jesus.
Although the stations executives were hesitant and tried to convince him otherwise, Schulz was insistent. As a result, for the past 50 plus years, millions of people have watched and “A Charlie Brown Christmas” and heard the story of Jesus and “what Christmas is all about.”
It wasn’t until a few years back that I realized a “hidden message” in the film. Linus, a child who seems to have some insecurities as he carries a security blanket with him at all times. In fact, Linus NEVER drops his blanket, except once….
While sharing the message of “what Christmas is all about,” Linus drops his blanket at the exact moment he says the words, “fear not!”
In this seemingly innocent moment, Linus delivers a powerful reminder of the true meaning of Christmas. We are to “fear not”, for Jesus is born. We needn’t rely on material things for security, we have God with us, “Immanuel”, (Matthew 1:23) Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior – the true meaning of Christmas.
Awhile back, someone informed me, indignantly so, that Linus picks up his blanket at the end of the speech so my interpretation must be wrong. Well, he was right, Linus does pick up his blanket at the end of his speech. However, he “drops” it again later…
Amid big, bright, colorful, shiny artificial trees, Charlie Brown chose the least of these, a little, wooden tree with just a few branches. Shortly thereafter, Linus uses his blanket to wrap about the base of the tree and says, “Maybe it just needs a little love”. In that moment, the tree “awakens”, stands tall and firm. A reminder that no matter who we are, how many mistakes we’ve made, a “little love” can make all the difference.
Let’s strive to “fear not” (Luke 2:10) and “love one another” (John 13:34), not just at Christmastime, but the whole year through.”
SO. . >
We all have a little Charlie Brown Christmas tree mentality in us that we can’t quite decorate, don’t we? How about, maybe even it’s just for NOW, this time of the year, we admit it. . .acknowledge THE FEAR and maybe blanket it or not. . .we LINUS US and drop THE BLANKET, as we quietly whisper or boldly shout, “FEAR NOT!”
And maybe, just maybe in some 30 days or less when everything goes back into the box, your FEAR will find it’s way in there, too!
JUST A MOMENT: THE DUST WE ARE
It’s almost downright offensive, isn’t it, WE ARE DUST, but this strong element of truth isn’t something that needs to be swept away or ignored, and certainly not even acknowledged. Some actually would go way back and wax philosophically that it’s the dust of the stars that are in our very DNA and who’s to argue. . . ?
We know that scientifically that’s somewhat true isn’t it? And yet who wants to be referred to or known as dust a particle or a pile of it?
I don’t think there’s too many hands would go up in that classroom we are all still very much a part; would yours?
So, how about we embrace the obvious: “IT IS FROM THE DUST OF THE EARTH WE COME AND TO THE DUST OF THE EARTH WE WILL RETURN”
It may be a matter of time for both, but that’s not a bad thing. In fact, that we existed all is a really. . .really good thing
TO BE
acknowledged and never hidden or. . .
THE GREATEST JOURNEY
Funny how we remember things, right? The only Chevy I ever owned was a Chevy Vega. It’s the one that I always wanted to forget that Iowned–It literally rusted out underneath of me me. The fenders rotted out, the exhaust was wired and clamped together with discarded tomato paste cans and I used ROLLS of electrical tape patching up radiator hoses and I had to park on a slope or else end up pushing the car just to jump start it because the clutch was long worn out; I think I had to Fred Flintsone it with my feet to get it to stop, because the floor board on my side rusted out; And yet the memories that I made in that car: Trips–travels back-and-forth from seminary to Home for Christmas are like none other as well as the weekly jaunts to my student-church with my secret weapon for being loved: My one year old daughter, Gina. . . Yeah, Memories are not the ones that we replace but the ones we continue to create because of the memories that we once had in n or out of any car.

What’ll get you up and down your Road
THIS HOLIDAY SEASON. . .?
TAKE THE TRIP
It’s still the best
JOURNEY
(especially when it’s taken together)
A VOW
My body tries to convince my mind almost on a daily basis what my heart refuses to acknowledge: I AM GETTING OLDER. No, I can no longer run and I don’t walk at the pace that I used to even though it’s still a pretty good clip, and coming downstairs. . . Oh my, please turn away, and shield all small children from the sight; It’s not a vision that any eyes, young or old should ever have to witness. I don’t or can’t eat like I used to or else. . .And bodily functions, well now let’s not get too graphic, after all, it is a family oriented, kind of a blog, but. . .and here’s the thing, it’s not just me, Erin is in that boat that we’re trying to navigate, and yes, at times it takes all four hands and our achy backs to row, but it’s in unison and provides a TOGETHERNESS that feels like soft flannel just out of the dryer on cold nights but experienced more richly than ever in our 40 years together and now even more so when I read and share with you THIS:
💔 The Day Alan Alda Learned He Had Parkinson’s — And the Promise His Wife Refused to Break
Alan Alda remembers every detail of that afternoon in 2015.
The doctor had just said the words no one ever wants to hear:
“Parkinson’s.”
Alan didn’t cry.
He didn’t speak.
He just went home, sat in his favorite chair, and stared at his trembling hands.
A moment later, Arlene walked in.
“Alan… what did the doctor say?”
He looked up.
“Parkinson’s.”
Silence filled the room — heavy, terrifying, real.
Alan whispered, “I don’t want you to carry this. You’re almost 80. You shouldn’t have to take care of me.”
Arlene didn’t hesitate.
She lowered herself to her knees — slow, painful, but determined.
“Listen to me,” she said softly.
“Sixty-seven years ago, I promised I’d stay with you in sickness and in health. I didn’t say those words for decoration. I meant them.”
Alan blinked hard.
“You knew this day would come?”
“I knew we’d grow old,” she said. “And I chose to grow old with you. Parkinson’s doesn’t change that. Nothing changes that.”
For the first time since the diagnosis, Alan broke.
He covered his face and cried into the hands that had held scalpels on MAS*H, scripts on Broadway, and Arlene’s fingers for nearly seven decades.
“I’m scared,” he admitted.
Arlene took his shaking hands, kissed them, and whispered:
“I’m scared too.
But I’m not scared of the disease.
I’m scared you’ll think I’ll ever leave your side.
And I won’t. Not now… not ever.”
That night, Alan finally slept — not because the fear was gone, but because Arlene had reminded him of something stronger:
See–Love doesn’t disappear when the body trembles.
Love holds tighter. . .
Sometimes this Advent and Christmas Season, we will be lighting a candle, symbolizing LOVE. Now to be sure, it’s a candle that once lit will flicker and offer a small, beautiful glow and a comforting warmth, but it will be extinguishable. . .so very much unlike the dearest, sincerest, warmest–the most vulnerable love that we carry around in sickness and in health, to love and a cherish, all the days of our lives and just a tad bit more of eternity following. . .

JUST A MOMENT: GETTING UN-CORKED
“Hey, why don’t you put a cork in it?!” is most likely something that is not foreign to us. We have either heard it or we have said it to somebody who’s complaining or whining, which is up and up, KAVITZING about their life or something or someone and let’s face it, we all have something that we could probably CORK, right?
But what if, just in a moment, we did the opposite. . .IF we heard the unbearable, purposely and intently, listened to the complaint– even if it’s been the same time after time; again and again, maybe not to provide a solution, maybe not to make it even better, but just to COMPANION it, to hold space with it; to show another person that what we want to tell them to CORK up, we’re also willing to help them
UN-CORK it. . . and who knows, in doing so, in just a moment, we may get UN-CORKED ourselves. . .
HOME BUT NOT ALONE
I know, I know
C H R I S T M A S
started showing up and off
way before Halloween
just after school began again in the Fall
after all of the
BACK TO SCHOOL SPECIALS
and now it’s seeping in every outlet
known and un-known
READY OR NOT
So. . .
in an all too little pause that’s offered
and even less taken
here’s a shout out to the 35th Anniversary to
HOME ALONE
but really it’s a bigger
M E S S A G E
and louder shout out that
HOME
DOESN’T MEAN
A L O N E
(especially if you’re the one who makes a Difference)
YOUR THANKSGIVING TABLE
In this special Thanksgiving of The Caring Catalyst Blog, my invitation is to have you go and be the reason another can be thankful, because the best table to ever be around isn’t the one with endless food; it’s the one with ongoing and everlasting sustenance that satisfies every hunger, quenches every thirst, binds up every wound, and makes every heart less lonely as it welcomes, always welcomes and never disappoints.
T H I S
will be the mysterious blessing of:
AS YOU FEED SO SHALL YOU BE FED
and full, ever full will your Soul be. . . .
THE GETTING IS IN THE GIVING

Pssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssst:
Even if you don’t like what folks
bring to the
T A B L E. . .
NEVER LET THEM EAT ALONE
HAPPY THANKSGIVING
JUST A MOMENT: A THANKSGIVING TABLE
It’s amazing, isn’t it? Sometimes what we worry about is so often what we don’t do anything about. . .Do you set the table? A table itself does not get set. . . Oh, we have these nice little clichés about that–“Don’t worry, it’s what you bring to the table that matters.”
Hey, What about the things we don’t bring to the table, the things that we expect are already at the table? There’s nothing worse than a Thanksgiving~less table. . .but. . .but now, right here, it’s like no other time of the year. We have a chance to literally, set the table. . .
So, what will you bring to the table? Will it benefit just you or will it serve, EVERYBODY. . . even those you’d rather not have seated around your table. . .will it benefit them as well?
Well the answer to that will either make it one of the greatest Thanksgiving’s you’ve ever had. . .or not. . .
(Psssssssssssst: It may well be not so much what you bring to the table as it is who’s allowed there to join you)

TO SERVE UP
SECONDS
OF
It’ll do wonders for your
d i g e s t i o n
SO. . .WHAT’S YOUR STORY?
His parents locked him in a psychiatric hospital and gave him electroshock therapy because he refused to become a lawyer—so he walked 500 miles across Spain, wrote a book in two weeks, and it became one of the bestselling books in human history.
This is Paulo Coelho. And “The Alchemist” is his proof that the universe rewards those who refuse to surrender their dreams.
Paulo was born in 1947 in Rio de Janeiro to middle-class parents who had perfectly reasonable expectations: become a lawyer or engineer, get a respectable job, live a conventional life.
Paulo had other plans.
By his teens, he’d fallen in love with Brazil’s counterculture—hippie philosophy, rock music, mysticism, poetry, rebellion against everything his parents’ generation valued. He didn’t want stability. He wanted meaning. He didn’t want convention. He wanted freedom.
His parents were horrified. And in 1960s Brazil, they had a solution they believed was for his own good:
They had him institutionalized in a psychiatric hospital.
Between 1965 and 1967, Paulo’s parents committed him three separate times. They believed his rebelliousness was mental illness that could be “cured” with treatment. He underwent electroshock therapy. Medication. Confinement. All because he refused to be who they wanted him to be.
The experience was traumatic, dehumanizing, devastating.
But when Paulo finally emerged from those institutions, he wasn’t broken. He was more determined than ever to live life on his own terms.
Through the 1970s, Paulo pursued the bohemian existence his parents had tried to erase. He became a successful lyricist, writing songs for some of Brazil’s biggest rock musicians. He worked as a journalist. He explored alternative spirituality, magic, mysticism—everything conventional society dismissed as foolish.
He tried writing fiction. His early novels went nowhere.
By his late thirties, Paulo had achieved a kind of success—but something was missing. He felt disconnected from purpose, from meaning, from whatever it was he was supposed to be doing with his life.
Then in 1986, at age 38, Paulo made a decision that would change everything:
He walked the Camino de Santiago.
The Camino is a 500-mile pilgrimage route across northern Spain to the cathedral of Santiago de Compostela. For over a thousand years, people have walked it seeking transformation, penance, clarity, answers.
Paulo walked it seeking… something. He wasn’t sure what.
The journey was brutal. Long days through heat and rain. Blisters. Exhaustion. Sleeping in pilgrim hostels. Carrying everything on his back. Physical pain testing his mental resolve.
But somewhere along those 500 miles, something shifted.
Paulo began experiencing moments of profound insight. Synchronicities. Signs that felt like the universe was speaking directly to him. He felt himself reconnecting with a spiritual dimension of life he’d lost.
By the time he reached Santiago de Compostela, Paulo felt transformed. He’d found what he’d been seeking: a sense of purpose, a spiritual awakening, a conviction that life had meaning beyond what could be touched or measured.
He wrote about the experience in “The Pilgrimage,” published in 1987. It became a cult hit among spiritual seekers.
But the Camino had given him something even more valuable: an idea.
Paulo became obsessed with certain concepts that had crystallized during his walk: that everyone has a “Personal Legend”—a unique destiny they’re meant to fulfill. That the universe sends signs to guide those who pursue their purpose. That the journey toward your dream is as important as achieving it.
Then he encountered a short story by Argentine writer Jorge Luis Borges—a retelling of an ancient folk tale:
A man dreams of treasure buried in a distant land. He journeys far to find it. When he arrives, he meets another man who’s dreamed of treasure buried back where the first man came from. They realize: the treasure was always at home, but they had to take the journey to understand its value.
This story electrified Paulo. It was everything he’d experienced on the Camino, distilled into pure narrative.
He sat down to write.
It was 1987. In approximately two weeks of intensive work, Paulo Coelho wrote “The Alchemist.”
He later said the book was “already written in his soul”—he was just transcribing it. The story poured out: Santiago, the shepherd boy who dreams of treasure at the Egyptian pyramids. His journey across North Africa. The alchemist who teaches him to listen to his heart. The discovery that his treasure was home all along—but he had to complete the journey to find it.
The book was simple. A fable. A parable that read like ancient wisdom but was completely original.
Paulo gave the manuscript to his Brazilian publisher. They published it in 1988.
It flopped.
The first print run was small. Sales were disappointing. Critics were indifferent. The publisher, seeing no commercial potential, dropped “The Alchemist” entirely.
Paulo was devastated. He’d poured his spiritual awakening, his deepest beliefs about destiny and purpose, his soul into this book.
And it had failed.
But Paulo believed in “The Alchemist” with absolute, unshakeable conviction. He found another publisher willing to take a chance.
And then something magical happened.
One person read the book and told a friend. That friend told another. Slowly, organically, without marketing campaigns or publicity budgets, “The Alchemist” began spreading through pure word-of-mouth.
By the early 1990s, it was a phenomenon in Brazil. Then Portuguese-speaking countries. Then it was translated into Spanish and exploded across Latin America.
In 1993, HarperCollins published the English translation. It became an international bestseller.
By the late 1990s, “The Alchemist” was selling millions of copies annually, translated into dozens of languages, appearing on bestseller lists worldwide.
Today, over 150 million copies have been sold. It’s been translated into 80+ languages. It’s one of the most-translated, continuously-in-print books in publishing history.
Presidents quote it. Celebrities recommend it. Teachers assign it. People give it to graduates, friends going through transitions, anyone searching for meaning.
The message is deceptively simple: Follow your dreams. Listen to your heart. When you want something with your whole being, the entire universe conspires to help you achieve it.
Critics sometimes dismiss it as simplistic, as new-age platitudes. But millions of readers have found something profound in its pages—because Paulo Coelho wrote from lived experience.
He’d been institutionalized for refusing to conform.
He’d walked 500 miles seeking spiritual truth.
He’d experienced the synchronicities and signs he wrote about.
And he’d persisted with “The Alchemist” even after it was rejected—because he believed in it absolutely.
The story of “The Alchemist” mirrors its own message: Paulo had a dream (write a book that changes lives), faced seemingly impossible obstacles (institutionalization, rejection, failure), persisted anyway, and eventually the universe conspired to make his book a global phenomenon.
Whether you believe in Personal Legends or consider it metaphor doesn’t matter.
The fact remains: Paulo Coelho was a failed novelist whose book was dropped by its first publisher.
Through persistence and belief, that book became one of history’s bestsellers.
He was institutionalized for being different. He walked across Spain seeking answers. He wrote a book in two weeks about following your dreams. The first publisher dropped it.
Now, 150 million people have read it.
That’s not just a publishing success story.
That’s proof that sometimes—just sometimes—when you refuse to surrender what you believe in, when you keep walking even when the path seems impossible, when you trust that your Personal Legend is real—
Impossible things happen.
Paulo Coelho walked 500 miles across Spain seeking purpose.
He found it. Then he wrote it down.
And millions of people, walking their own journeys, have found his words waiting for them like signs along the path.
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