Happiness — Page 57

A Completed Pass

January 8, 2014 By ChuckBehrens 2 Comments

It must have made a big impression. I heard the story a very long time ago. A tale about Death.

It involves five brothers, Princes exiled from their kingdom, wandering through the forest and finding themselves thirsty. The youngest goes for water and discovers an inviting lake with a white crane standing at the edge. He sprints for the lake and the Crane speaks right before he dives in for a big gulp.

“STOP!” it cries. “This is my lake. If you touch this water without answering my questions, you will die.”

Desperate, the young man ignores the warning. He bends to drink his fill and falls dead by the water’s edge.

In a few moments the next brother comes in search of the first. He’s really thirsty too and he bends down at the lake’s edge to drink. Just as he is about to quench his thirst, the Crane shouts out to him, “STOP! If you touch this water without answering my questions, you will die.” But even though the young prince sees his brother lying dead nearby, he is so thirsty he can’t help himself. He goes to cup the water in his hands for a full gulp and falls dead at the side of his brother.

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Resolve NOT to Resolve

January 1, 2014 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

Well, do you or don’t you?

I don’t!

I’m not a list maker to begin with. . .my sticky notes never stay stuck, and if they do, it’s usually something I didn’t intend them to get stuck to and they end up getting lost, forgotten, well–you get the picture.

I adamantly Resolve N O T to Resolve!

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F L A S H I N G

December 23, 2013 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

Seriously. . .Whatever it is that causes you to break out, to Flash Mob in Song, may it happen unexpectedly and repeatedly and more, May you BE the Cause of IT to happen Unexpectedly and Repeatedly (For) to Others.

Discover your very best is so much more than a Season or an event, or an occurrence–a Happening!

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The Greatest Gift

December 18, 2013 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

Wouldn’t it be great?

You think you’re home for the evening; you have no plans or DO YOU?

Your doorbell rings. You contemplate even answering it, but you do. There’s a man in an elegant tuxedo, top hat, white gloves and a cane. You see over his shoulder that there’s a luxurious limo and he tells you he’s here to escort you to a very special place where “NO” doesn’t exist. You throw on a pair of jeans that don’t have last night’s dinner remains on it and a shirt that doesn’t have the powder sugar your donut snowed all over it just before the doorbell rang.

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Love’s NOT the Greatest Thing

December 13, 2013 By ChuckBehrens 2 Comments

First time for me in 33 years of Ministry. A double-wedding ceremony.

It took place at the David Simpson Hospice House in Cleveland around 10:15 a.m. on 12/11/13.

Their mother is very sick and is declining rather quickly. “THEY” wanted to do something about as special as a son and a daughter can do for an ailing mother. Take her to a wedding: THEIR’S!

With a small amount of family and friends gathered into The Mediation Room that overlooked an angry Lake Erie on a dishwater gray Winter morning, they wheeled the bed of their mother into that small gathering.

I told them as we began the service, that no matter what Cathedral or highly adorned Sanctuary they’d ever find themselves, it would never be any more sacred than the walls of family and friends that surrounded them right then.

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December 2, 2013 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

WARNING: G R A T I T U D E ALERT!

IF Thanksgiving is all about family gathers and feasts upon feasts that last entire weekends. . .

IF Thanksgiving is all about huge football rivalries that have you sitting on the edge of your chairs…

IF Thanksgiving is all about Pilgrims and Indians re-enactment of cute plays with moral meanings…

IF Thanksgiving is all about Gray Thursdays, Black Friday’s Pewter Saturdays, Cyber Mondays. . .

IF Thanksgiving is all about short vacations and getting out of work and school. . .

IF Thanksgiving is all about fine wine, cocktails, the first of holiday parties. . .

IF Thanksgiving is all about leftovers. . .

THEN IT IS O V E R!

But. . .

IF Thanksgiving is all about Gratitude. . .

Then it hasn’t begun. . .

Then it hasn’t concluded. . .

Then it HAS only C O N T I N U E D!

Pass me a Slice of Sincerity and a Cup of Compassion and let us proceed on the Gratitude Trail picking up others along The Way. . . .

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Spelling C-O-M-P-A-S-S-I-O-N

November 25, 2013 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

So often we don’t think COMPASSION is an Inside Job or our Responsibility–It’s Someone Else’s job or at least their turn and it’s something, at the least, just mystically happens.

WRONG!

It doesn’t matter if it’s Health Care, or Education or Politics, or the Arts. It doesn’t matter what Gender or age or weight or height. Compassion is more than a Feeling or even a glancing high-tech Touch.

Enough!

Sympathy says, “I’m sorry,”

Compassion Yells, “HOW CAN I HELP?”

Studies actually show that when we feel most in tune with another, even our autonomic nervous systems join a in a harmonious rhythm.

Compassion is more than a “Good Thing.” “A Nice thing to do” “A Good way to be.”

Our world has never been in more need of this one simple, consistent Act as it is right now.

Compassion is the least expensive, less evasive, most powerful non-pharmological means to actually change, heal, complete another’s life.

You really want to know how to spell C-O-M-P-A-S-S-I-0-N?

It’s this simple: Y-O-U!

Y O U have the ability to not only enhance and actually change a life. . .but actually SAVE ONE!

Now! Do this now!

Even reading this has wasted precious time for Someone you can help with a word, a deed, a look, a smile, a touch, a hand attached to an arm you could drape around a shoulder and hug a little closer.

Y-O-U. . .”The Answer!”

Your Garbage

November 15, 2013 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

Everyone has it: GARBAGE!

Garbage day is never missed is it? We all have THAT day, and we, in a strange sort of way SAVE up for it all week, don’t we? All week long, we bag, pack, haul our garbage to place where it finally can get picked up and shipped away for good. . .or, or does it?

Imagine taking piles of garbage to the curb and as the Garbage truck comes down the street and is just about ready to pull up and haul your garbage away, you frantically run out, STOP, prevent them from doing their job and in fact, bring all of your garbage back into the house again—the whole week’s worth! Plus, you have the truck back up to your front door and have them dump all they’ve collected from their daily pick up right there in your LIVING ROOM!

Absurd? Unheard of? Ludicrous?

It is, isn’t it. . . until we bring back all that garbage we’ve allegedly long discarded to find out we’re worse than Hoarders keeping out of date fliers and junk mail piled to the ceiling.

It’s THIS simple: When you throw out YOUR Garbage, KEEP IT OUT. There’s a reason it’s garbage and IT STINKS! Why keep it or worse, Still Carry It Around?

To the Curb!

Leave IT!

Don’t Bring IT back in again.

Carry Yourself. . .and NOT IT!

Fix You

November 11, 2013 By ChuckBehrens Leave a Comment

Is there a worse feeling, EVER?

You want to help, but there seemingly is nothing you can do. No word to speak, no phrase to utter, no deed to do, no wish to be granted. A painful helplessness. Terrible.

But all is not lost. There’s the absolute one thing, maybe the only thing that’s better than any prescription, therapy, intervention, or experiment.

YOU. Just You. Your Presence. Not your words. Not your deeds. Not your, “There, there’s. . . .”

Just YOU.

Show up and watch the healing take place!

It’s the most curing, the most compassionate, caring thing you can ever share.

You! Show up! Watch the healing begin. . .and forget to end!

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