Well, is there really such a thing?
A FREE LUNCH
Weren’t we all told that as we were growing up,
but maybe not growing
as quickly as the Some O N E
who told us to “GROW UP?”
“T H E R E ‘ S N O F R E E L U N C H , K I D D O!”
Probably true. . .
but what about a F R E E B R E A K F A S T?
I’ve known Hank for about six years;
Hmmmmm. . .know him?
I know his name is Hank.
I know that he meets for Breakfast Monday through Friday
at a Bob Evan’s with three other of his buddies. . .
I know that he likes the same waitress, Jody,
as about 6 other of us and we all sit in the same spots. . .
I know that he had recently lost a lot of weight
that he never really had to lose. . .
I know that he doesn’t eat much any more;
a cup of coffee and dry toast. . .
I know that he has cancer.
I know that he’s on Chemo.
I know there’s no free lunch,
but breakfast. . .
We all take turns including his coffee and dry toast into our bills
ever since Jody stopped charging him;
He makes jokes about not getting a free lunch,
but breakfast is another matter
and his favorite meal, too. . .
I’ve been thinking about Hank more than just the Tuesday’s I include his $1.79 into my bill. . .
I’ve been thinking
T H A T
is the only thing Hank gets for free;
He talks about his kids taking turns bringing him in for his treatments.
He speaks of his neighbors bringing over dinner several times a week.
He shares about how nephews take turns cutting his grass or shoveling the snow from his driveway.
What’s he ever pay for?
Nothing?
Well, not so much from his wallet,
maybe. . .
Hank gives great smiles
Hank gives warm hugs
Hank gives firm handshakes
Hank gives simple
H O P E
just by showing up every day;
“I don’t know if I’ll see my next birthday in January,” he raspily says.
“And. . . ,” I offer up.
“And. . .
that just means I’ll treat everyday like a Birthday,” he laughs.
“Besides with all of you, it’s kind of hard not to see it any other way.”
“Who knows how my story will end,”
he offers with a shrug of his shoulders and his arms stretched out, palms up?
Who indeed. . .
But I kind of like how
Hank’s story has now become a part of the pages
of my own story without his ink,
pen or pages;
just his gentle,
indelible impression.
He becomes even more iconic
n o w. . .
Hank died a few weeks ago
and meals will no longer take on the meaning for him
as they D O
for us
or even as they once
d i d
A free lunch?
Maybe not. . .
but for a buck-79,
it’s about as priceless as it gets. . .
and a cup of coffee has never tasted better;
Join us!
Where’s the Hank you’ll get to meet. . .
or have you already?
Pssssssssssssssst;
Go meet him
a g a i n
mary delmonte says
Chuck Behrens you amaze me. There are so many words to describe who a human being is, what they are all about, how they see and interpret life both theirs and someone else’s. There are so many words that give hope, that show compassion. There are so many words that are used to comfort, to show concern and caring about others. You my friend are without a doubt the catalyst of words, the man, the legend the ultimate user of all the words that always mean something to someone at the exact time they are needed.
Keep talking
ChuckBehrens says
Ms. Mary, there are many a lucky man in the is world, even more in the Universe…but none as lucky as me for having friends like you and Ronnie. Can’t promise I’ll keep talking, but because of you guys there’ll always be something to SING ABOUT! Love you dearly