I’ve only heard of it happening. . .
Has it ever happened to you. . . ?
Losing your Parking Garage Ticket
I had it in my pocket,
I thought for all day
and I thought wrong. . .
When I got to the attendant
I already knew that I would have to be
T H E A L L D A Y F E E
Uhhhhhh. . .I was wrong about that, too. . .
The sign read in
extremely bold numerals
$ 6 0 . 0 0 FOR THE LOSS OF TICKET
I pled my case to the young girl parking attendant. . .
A c t u a l l y. . .
I thought my argument was very convincing,
telling her that I had just finished presenting
at a Conference at the Hyatt Regency. . .
for good measure,
I even showed her my fancy, super-shiny
name tag that boldly showed my name
and the even more prominent
S P E A K E R
label under my name. . .
She asked me what time I arrived
and when I told her
she got on her walkie-talkie to
T H E M A N A G E R
told him, quite eloquently my plight and without hesitation he responded:
“Uhhhhh, yeah, he’s going to have to pay the Sixty-dollar fee without a ticket. . .I’d have him go back in and hunt for it again.”
She looked at me and shrugged her shoulders,
moved the cars behind me out of the way to another line
(They really thought that was a great idea)
and I went back in to the Hotel/Conference Center
to search every place I had been that day. . .
including the Starbucks literally right outside of the door of the room I conducted my presentation
. . .n o l u c k
. . .back to my car, up the ramp to the attendant. . .
“Ma’am, I’m sorry. . .I looked everywhere and I can’t find it. . .It’s not your fault, it’s mine, and I’ll have to pay the fine.”
And I was reaching for my credit card and extending it towards her
I T H A P P E N E D
Her hand went over top of mine as I extended the card to her and she held it. . .
she held my hand until I looked up
I saw her eyes–wet–
“Sir, I am so sorry, I hate this. I know you are a good man. I know you’re not lying. I know you didn’t lose this ticket on purpose and I really like your tie.”
T H E R E I T W A S :
WHAT I LOST
wasn’t as valuable as
WHAT I FOUND:
Pure
unadulterated
sincere
Compassion
We do, don’t we. . . ?
We so very often fail to
Notice what we Recognize. . .
Uhhhhhhh, NO!
Not today
Not now
Not this Blog-post
Recognize–won’t you. . .
Notice–will you. . .
When you have L O S T
You’ve F O U N D
Found what?
S o m e t h i n g
. . .something sometimes more awesome than what we’ve lost. . .
but we won’t stop
focusing
recognizing
noticing
on what we’ve lost
so much that it’s literally impossible to
focus
recognize
notice
what’s f o u n d
So can you. . . ?
Can you
recognize or notice
what was found after what was lost. . . ?
A new relationship
A new job
A new challenge
A new goal
A new fortune
A new journey
A new beginning
A new door
A Newness you’ve never
envisioned
known
experienced
s h a r e d ?
The next time you go to the
L O S T A N D F O U N D
don’t look for what’s been
L O S T
search
for what’s to be found
and don’t fail
to notice or recognize it. . .
or share it
Mark dembinski says
To be so aware of that compassion; that kindness; that guardian angel moment at the time it is happening…that is when I feel joy.
And most times I’m too busy counting what I don’t have or what I lost, instead of counting what I have or what was found. Thanks