It was a pure act of Love
It was a pure act of Generosity
It was a pure act of Compassion
Stolen
STOLEN
S T O L E N. . . .
It was several years ago.
I was visiting a patient who was actively dying. Her family was out of town, trying desperately to get back to be with her before she died.
I was sitting beside her bed and I was reading
(PRAYING)
the Rosary for her which was in her hands.
She was completely unresponsive and just as completely comfortable and managed.
While I was Reading the Rosary on her behalf a lady came to give Communion to the patient I was seeing and her roommate.
We had met before. She had come to a workshop/presentation I had done at that nursing home,
A PRIEST, A RABBI AND A MINISTER CAME TO HOSPICE.
We greeted one another and after she had given Communion to the roommate, she came over to the foot of the bed of the patient I was providing simple presence.
“I don’t think she’ll be able to receive Communion today. I think she’s readying herself to take her final journey.”
“What about you,” she asked?
“ME?”
“Yes. You. Would you like to receive Communion?”
“I’m afraid I’m not able to because as you know I’m a Protestant Chaplain.”
“I didn’t ask you if you were able,” she said, I am asking if you would like to receive Communion on this Good Friday?”
What she was offering I had never been offered; never had to consider.
Honestly, it wasn’t her WORDS, her invitation, it was the look in her eyes as she offered.
LOVE FILLED.
I honestly believed at that moment, to REFUSE her offer would have been a wrongdoing;
A SIN
She Extended the Host to my Mouth
I humbly accepted.
Hours later, I went back to the office and shared the story and was severely chastised by a colleague, a fellow chaplain, a Eucharistic Minister who demanded to know the name of the person who had extended such an outrageous,
SACRILEGIOUS
G I F T
so she could be reprimanded and stripped of her duties of being a Eucharistic Minister.
It’s taken me a long time to learn the lesson
and I learned it painfully many times over
but I actually didn’t say anything to the remarks…
I didn’t respond or react at the attempt of
ALMOST BEING ROBBED OF SOMETHING SACRED FOR SOMETHING SORDID
BUT I THOUGHT
I THOUGHT. . .
D E N I E D
(I won’t be)
It happened several years ago but
I Remember. . .
I Remember well
(just as instructed)….
Communion isn’t what you Eat or Drink. . .
It’s what YOU DO.
A lesson LEARNED
is only half Accomplished…
When TAUGHT–
fully COMPLETED…
Completed in me
Completed in you
Communioned in ALL
DENIED
TO
NONE!
Dorothy says
Thanks for sharing this story, Chuck. Reminds me of a home visit I made many years ago. pt had specifically asked for communionion so I stopped at St Christopher in RR, I hadn’t expcted the many family members at Grandpa’s bedside. The one small host was broken, shared with all, including a gay son and partner estranged from Catholic Church and a young granddaughter who unceremoniously received her “First Communion” with Grandpa that day. Lots of stories, tears and gratitude and awareness of God’s love. We ARE the body of Christ.
ChuckBehrens says
Dorothy, thank you so much for sharing THAT story; it’s POWERFUL and everything about what LIVING COMMUNION is all about…what a fantastic GIFT they gave you that day, that you GIVE ME NOW! Blessings and Peace to you this Easter Season; Thanks for BEING EASTER to many and many to come.
Bonnie Juzenas says
Amen! And Amen!
Happy Easter friend.
Bonnie
ChuckBehrens says
Thank you and Blessings, Ms. Bonnie; BE the Easter so many NEED