Do me a favor, please. . .
Take a quick pop quiz for me;
Oh, come on,
it’s not going to be that bad for a Wednesday
. . .and besides,
I’m going to give you the answer:
Deal?
The A N S W E R I S:
T H R E E
Are you ready?
Here we go:
Pick a number between 1 and 10. . .
Multiple that number by 2. . .
Add 6. . .
Now divide that number by 2. . .
One last step. . .
are you ready?
Subtract the original number you picked between 1 and 10. . .
Allakazam. . .
Abracadabra. . .
YOUR ANSWER IS THREE!
I don’t know how that works out,
but I LOVE THAT IT DOES–every time;
old or new or core math. . .
it makes no difference,
THE ANSWER IS THREE!
So. . .
so what, right?
Well, I’ve used that example hundreds of times over the past twenty plus years with groups of a few to a few hundred and everyone always gasps with amazement;
I tell folks that it’s one of my favorite definitions/illustrations of Spirituality. . .
We may all start out with a different number
but we all arrive at the same place
I N T H E E N D !
I was reminded of that this by a patient who had just been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer about 6 months ago. . .
He did the research and to his mind felt that with or without interventions/chemo his life span was about the same and with that he chose to forego Chemo and choose Hospice to live out his days with quality since quantity wasn’t in the equation any longer.
He told me that he
NOW KNOWS HE’S GOING TO DIE
instead of just merely believing that one day he will die. . .
He said,
T H A T ‘ S A G A M E C H A N G E R ?
I didn’t ask him,
nor do I ask anyone else,
WHAT THEY BELIEVE. . .
I asked,
What S U S T A I N E D HIM?
He told me family and friends and his S P I R I T U A L I T Y. . .
I asked him what that his spirituality meant
and he told me
an openness and acceptance of all things and all people
And then. . .
he gave me such a beautiful illustration:
The night before many family members had been there to visit him and he pointed out the different kinds of water everyone had brought to drink. . .
DIFFERENT NAMES BUT ALL THE SAME !
Hmmmmmmmmm of the day:
What I call H2O you call WATER. . .
It’s a matter of taste, isn’t it?
How absurd is it for me to make fun or shun
or actually kill you for saying:
MY WATER is better
than YOUR WATER ?
Or. . .or that my ultimate love of Pecan Pie
is more right than your affection of
Mincemeat Pie?
Dare we agree that we may all be saying the same things–
D I F F E R E N T L Y ?
Blindfolded,
Would you be able to tell the difference between
Crystal Geyser,
Evian,
Fiji,
Aquafina,
Dasani
or the Costco
or Wall-Mart brands?
Pick a number between 1 and 10. . .
Sip. . .no,
drink deeply and notice that we–
all of us–
truly are only quenched when we’re thirsty
(AND WE’RE ALL THIRSTY FOR THE SAME THING BY A DIFFERENT NAME)
Bonnie Juzenas says
You always say, tell, it just right. That gentleman has it figured out. Love the message, Chuck. Have a blessed day. I know you always do. Always, Bonnie
ChuckBehrens says
Loved the story, too, Ms Bonnie…love to Story-Tell and Story-HEAR!! Pick Blessed!